27.4.15

Head V Heart.

 (Red sea at sunrise Marsa Alam Egypt by Chris Owen Photography)

For someone like me, who has troubles making the most basic decisions, it came as a surprise when someone of a spirtual nature told me that I had very good instincts. How could that even be possible? I wondered, when it took me five minutes to figure out whether I should leave my shirt tucked or untucked into my jeans that morning (untucked was the final verdict). That same person, told me that my heart was having some 'trust issues' with my head, and that there was a connection lacking between the two when it came to my more important decision making. I cried a little when I heard that, and I'm not sure if it was the energy massage I was recieving, or owing to a particularly vunreble day, but part of me knew it was true.

26.3.15

What Tinder made me realise


(You know that feeling when you're alone floating in the ocean? make it a permanent thing.)
It seems like lately all I can talk about is myself and the single life, but this blog is about personal experience so what I experience I have to write about.

I went on Tinder the other day, and as much as I’d like to say it was for a personal experiment to write about later, it was really because I was bored and felt as though I needed some male attention. Unfortunately for the sake of my online reputation, I can't say it's the first time I've been on. I've been on before, had a few matches and gotten over it after a few days. And yet on a rainy Saturday I thought to myself, 'surely it will be different this time around.'